“I’m not a regular Mom. I’m a cool Mom”. Regina George’s Mom
😉 Just kidding, I am a regular Mom- with the usual imperfections- cellulite, stretch marks, etc..that inevitably follow birthing a child. But who cares! Nobody is perfect, I’m not beating myself up because I do not look like a super model- neither should you.
When you create a stylish look, that fits well, and flatters your figure- there’s no need for a muumuu, “momkini” (wtf is that anyway??) or giant diaper sized bottoms- by trying hide (weight, scars, cellulite, stretch marks- whatever you believe to be your “flaws” to be) behind large clothes, it looks worse. It doesn’t fool anyone.
I gravitate towards swimwear that flatters hourglass figures; like high waisted styles, this one has underwire- bonus! Or with ruffle embellishments on hips- to draw the eye, or solid bottoms with a contrasting top, brings focus to top- all of these flatter my body type. Remember you need to size up in swimwear- I am a 34 DD so tops are a tough to find for me, so it means trying lots of stuff on.
There’s no hiding at the pool/beach, why bother? I am no size 0 and have lots of imperfections but I play to my shape, wear current styles, get a spray tan, ensure my skin is smooth, wear cute sunglasses and then grab a margarita 😎 and enjoy the sun….you can do it too! You are beautiful- find a good bathing suit store than will help you with fit and stop beating yourself up. Enjoy the sun! ☀️